How did you discover you were kinky?
I must have been in my mid teens and I can't really remember a specific moment or even but I think it was general conversation with my friends that made me realise that all the fantasies I'd been having weren't "normal" and how I imagined sex to be wasn't what everyone else imagined. I think one of the main things that made me realise was when I was talking to my best friend about love and marriage and she was saying how she pictured her first time, on her wedding day, bed covered in rose petals, lights off, gentle love making. I had never in my life before that even considered that, I always pictured my first time being thrown to the bed, handcuffed, spanked and fucked hard.
So yea, I think it was mostly a comparison with friends thing!