Monday, 1 April 2013

30 Days of Kink: Day 16

What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

 For me it is the lack of understanding and therefore having to watch what I say in public for fear of judgement. This is what has led me to a semi-anonymous blog, so that I can express myself, find myself properly, without that fear. Or at least with a lessened fear.
I find, especially with Daddy/girl play, that there is a massive lack of understanding. People can often understand a bit of "slap 'n' tickle" and to an extent D/s is becoming mainstream now with 50 Shades and the like appearing in bedrooms around the country, but Daddy/girl is not seen in the same light. Even in the kinky community it's looked on as a bit odd a lot of the time, at least that's what I've found.
So that's the hardest thing for me, the judgement that comes along with being a little, even with being a submissive and the fact that it sends me into hiding. I hate that.

1 comment:

  1. it's hard and something that effects most people who are into the kink scene ( in whatever form ) . if only the general public could understand , we ALL have kinks , that something that makes things feel right . having your neck stroked or getting your arse caned , it's all the same thing

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