Tuesday, 2 April 2013

Kink of the Week: Wax Play

Kink of the WeekThis week's kink is wax play, and this isn't something I've had the, erm, pleasure of trying! At least not yet. So I can only talk about how it looks and whether I want to try it.
It's certainly something I'd like to try, even though the idea scares me quite a lot! I have a bit of a fear of hot play after getting burned by a lighter at the hands of a 'Dom' with no experience or learning on the topic at all. We were both young and naive. But even so, I'd like to give it a whirl and find out what the feeling is like. I think if I were blindfolded and with someone I truly trusted then it could be great fun to experience the feelings and emotions that go with it.
I find images of wax play quite scary to look at to be honest, in fact fear is probably the main emotion that goes alongside it for me, but that fear does turn me on.
So, it's another short post again for KOTW, but they're my feelings on wax play!

8 comments:

  1. I would highly recommend you start off with a massage style candle. They burn at a lower temperature and really just feel like warm oil being poured on you.... and can lead to sexy massage time. They are great introduction to wax play before moving onto other candles. Oh and never use beeswax candles as they burn at a VERY high temperature and are likely to scold the skin in a not nice way

    Mollyxxx

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    1. Thank you for the advice. I will definitely try something milder like you suggest if I ever get to try it!

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  2. I've never tried massage candles, but they sound lovely. Wax play can be quite intense, but with someone skilled, it doesn't have to be - it can be lovely and gentle and sensual. I do understand your fear of the flame though - I too have had to deal with that, and in fact one of the few play sessions where I "freaked out" was a wax scene for that very reason! It wasn't a bad scene, it was all in my head. Kinda funny how that happens.

    I hope you get to experience a good wax scene one day! :-)

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    1. Thank you, I hope I do too, just hope I don't freak out!

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  3. Nice to get the perspective of someone who hasn't tried it. It can be a bit intimidating, especially in light of having had a negative experience such as you described. Still I think you would enjoy it. Nice post.

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    1. Definitely intimidating! I'm sure in the right hands it would be a wonderful experience.
      Thank you.

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  4. I hope you will be able to experience wax play one day with someone you fully trust :)

    Rebel xox

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  5. It's one of my favourite plays, but I remember how scared I was when I first started to experiment!! I dripped on a less sensitive area first and gradually worked my way up to the erogenous ones!! Solo play might be the way to go at first so you have a better idea what to expect. I hope you get to experience it soon!

    ~Kazi xxx

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