One popular idea is that slaves have no choices once they are owned. Others do not agree with this concept. Is this an accurate statement for you?
I sort of covered this in my last post, but I'll try to go a little deeper today.
I'm not 100% sure where I stand on this one; I know slaves who are involved in certain decision making processes, their thoughts and feelings are all taken into account, but ultimately their Doms have the final say.
To me though, for some reason, I cannot get out of the mindset that being a slave equals no say at all, no choices, no opinions, no nothing, and that is why I have never identified as a slave myself. I like having opinions and being able to express them. I want my thoughts and feelings to be taken into account, I need to feel listened to and I like to feel appreciated and for some reason, in my head, being a slave rules all that out.
I'd like to have a more open minded attitude to slavehood, I don't want to feel I've ruled out being a slave in a future relationship, but the reality is that, at the moment, I have because of my unfounded opinions about what it means to be a slave. I am frustrated by myself and by those opinions, hopefully they will change soon.